What we really want is to have Outrageously Connected,
Loving Relationships
that leave us feeling Loved, Special and Excited about Life.
We run workshops that Empower Women
to live their Best Lives by Honouring, Reclaiming and Ignighting
their Inner Feminine and Sexual Selves.
If you want to open your heart and body to feeling more, connecting more,
experiencing more energy and vitality for life
then this is the workshop for you and your awesome friends.
Loving Relationships
that leave us feeling Loved, Special and Excited about Life.
We run workshops that Empower Women
to live their Best Lives by Honouring, Reclaiming and Ignighting
their Inner Feminine and Sexual Selves.
If you want to open your heart and body to feeling more, connecting more,
experiencing more energy and vitality for life
then this is the workshop for you and your awesome friends.
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I believe that life feels hard for many of us right now. We seem to be more stressed, more exhausted and more time poor. However, our core human needs remain untouched, they remain hidden within us.
The Wonder Woman in all of us may be racing around being amazing but don't you sometimes feel that you can't be her all of the time, that sometimes you just don't feel like your old self that something is missing. Waiting for all stress and things to settle down may work sometimes, but not always, right. Lets face it we all desire love and affection, to have someone to turn to, to have someone to laugh with and to have someone to bitch to, but we either don't have enough time, or we find ourselves pushing it away. As much as we need our space we also crave connection. Intuitively we all know how we want to feel within our hearts, our minds, our body and our soul. Some of us have experienced those blissful moments when our desires and longing are experienced in timeless exquisite moments, whether we be with a lover or we find flow in our work, somehow we disappear into it. |
Fai: Sex Therapist, Counsellor, Presenter, Awesome friend to many, Pain in the butt to some and a fabulous mom to two boys
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Dear Fai,
I would like to express my gratitude for your upbeat delivery of such empowering information at yesterdays I am Woman seminar. Initially the thought of attending did make me a bit nervous, but I was instantly at ease when seeing such a lovely seminar room and then being welcomed so sincerely by you and Michelle. Infact, I think everyone felt comfortable fairly early on. Your format is not threatening or confrontational which makes it accessible to everyone and the high quality of information exceeded my expectations. I really appreciate the energy and enthusiasm you have for educating people. So THANK YOU! I am still feeling cheated by what was taught to me in highschool sex ed though! High School Teacher |
The Workshop
In the past we have shared with you WHAT you would learn and how amazing that info is - trust me, it's not been an easy sell. So I am going to start with the WHY. WHY would anyone rock up to a workshop about female sexual anatomy, sexual scripts, dispelling myths and understanding the barriers towards experiencing your sexual desires? Here's a question for you Do you want to experience connected, satisfying, blissful relationships? Do you know how you can keep things feeling that way? You only need to look around to know that even the most loved up couples seem to be struggling, even breaking up so If you knew that this could be prevented by understanding human relationship and human sexuality, would you choose to empower yourself and your relationship (current or future) with these gems? Awesome - now we have your WHY We all crave to feel happy and healthy, we are willing to take time to learn about nutrition and exercise, how to get stains out of the carpet and how not to shrink your kids clothes. I'm good with these but an area that creates intense personal pain, hurt and dissatisfaction should also be something that you need to be able to focus in and learn about. The disconnects that occur in our primary relationship and sexual relationship are huge components that directly influence the quality of our relationship and how satisfied we are with our lives. That's kinda huge - Right? When all of the elements come together, we don't look for the why or how, we are just thinking OMG that was amazing, or OMG thank G-d I found him/her. We feel loved, desire, desired we laugh, we are happy, we smile, we feel good and sometimes we feel amazing. But here's the thing, what if you have never experienced it, you think what’s wrong with me, why have I never experienced this, am I unlovable? What if you once had your dream relationship but things have changed and you have no idea what went wrong or how to bring the spark back.When this happens, what happens to your connection, your love, your communication, how you feel about yourself, how you feel about the relationship, what happens to your energy, your inner glow, your happiness. It doesn't feel good does it, actually it feels like shit! People start to question, what's gone wrong, where did the love go, does he/she still want me. If things get bad enough they say, he hasn't touched me in months, when I sit next to him he ignores me, when I lean in for a hug, it feels so cold and distant. If you have been this person, you know how much this hurts. I have been that person and when I think about the me, that I was back then, it still hurts, it still makes me teary. Sometimes the role is reversed you might find yourself saying: When he hugs me a feel myself freeze up, when we go to bed I pray that he won't lean over and touch me. I still love him but I never feel like sex, in fact I never think about sex, I don't know what happened but my libido has gone. I don't know how long we can last like this for, I don't want him to leave me. This presentation will help you answer ALL of these questions. I will help you review the patterns in your own relationships that have lead you towards or away from what you desire. This can only be achieved by building a great foundation to work from. I AM Woman - What you need to know to develop a strong foundation. Your Sexual Anatomy: Knowing your sexual anatomy helps you understand your sexual arousal and pleasure. How the Human Body is wired for Connection and Pleasure and how we unintentionally train it to no longer desire touch and connection The Sexual Scripts that exist within us and how sticking to these can sabotage even the most loving relationship The Behaviours and Patterns of relating that create barriers It’s time to get real and honest and take a look at how you might creating the distance that you are trying to rebuild How history and our society affect our every day experiences I hate feeling that forces outside of me have influenced me, but I knw it's true. When we are able to see these influenced whether they be cultural or your own personal lived experinces, once we can see them and name them we can minimise their influence and we can start building our own core beliefs. What is an Orgasm? Every week a new client walks into my room to discuss her inability to orgasm in general or to orgasm during sex. There is laughter, no giggles, this i real for them, they walk around feeling like this defines them as a woman and and thei sexuality. Luckily for some we can ease their troubles within a few minutes and for others we can start them on a beautiful journey. This is my favourite part of the presentation, this part of the presentation has literally changed thousands of lives, it’s AMAZing. Redefining what sex means to you and redefining what sexual pleasure means to you: Redefining what sex means to you is the beginning of your heart journey, knowing the answer to this will create ease within you and open up a space for connection, warmtha nd beautiful feelings. Imagin how good it's going to feel knowing that you are creating your life experiences Things you might want to know
Who should rock up!
We attract AMAZing women. It's true. Yes some people might be a little shy at first, some think that they will get nothing out of it but come along because their friends told them to, but this is not who they are, this is just how they feel about rocking up so lets review some of the barriers here. How can knowing about your sexual self - improove your relationships? Here's the truth, I struggle to find the words to share with you just how life changing these workshops have been for some people. We can't do the doing for you but we can provide you with the steps, motivation and the support to help you get there? People send me their "AHA" moments after every workshop and I am amazed, thrilled, blessed and honoured to have been a part of their journey. Please send me yours, I love them! OUR Guarantee to you: If you feel that you did not learn anything, if we did not provide the information that we said that we would, please email us the following day and we will refund you 100%. Just let us know what your expectations were, how you feel we missed the mark and share any feedback you have so that we can consider them for next time. What if someone sees me? There is nothing to be embarrassed about, we are here supporting each other, discussing factors that are crucial to living a satisfying and fulfilling life. People will think I have a problem if I turn up to something like this. This workshop is not for people with problems, it is for people who are engaging in living their best life. It's a celebration of us! We are a group of empowered women who aim to talk our truth and walk the walk. I never see us as having problems, I see us as having stuff that we haven't figured out yet and stuff that we are working on. That does not mean we have a problem. People who exercise are not seen as having a problem because they are engaged in their personal fitness and that is how I view us. What if I really do have a problem? I loooove questions, they allow me to throw stuff into the mix at the workshop that may have not come out otherwise. However, if I feel that there is more to your concern or question and I don't feel it will benefit the group to stay focused on it for too long, I will gently ask to chat to you after the presentation. Most people who feel that they would benefit from exploring their concerns further are encouraged to book in for a private session with me. Nothing is too embarrassing, People talk to me about their pain, their bodies and their realationships daily. I provide a safe and gentle space for you to heal. I don't really want to talk about me. Even though we break off into small groups, it's only for a short time and there is no pressure for you to share anything, I promise. I am one of your clients, I don't want anyone to know that you are my therapist. I promise that unless you share this information, no one could possibly know. I honour your privacy. I have heard that people have come to this like 7 times - what the?? lol well that is true, mainly because I tend to never say the same thing in the same way twice, I am inspired by the energy and the questions of the group. Ok, well it's not just because of me, it's true we really do attract amazing, wonderful women and my team are the best, you will love them. The conversations we have are real, no BS and we are not here to bitch about each other, but rather to support each others journeys. We are all different, and we all have our quirks and trust me we honour them. Who should NOT rock up? If you are a judgmental biatch who wants to argue for the sake or prooving a point or to help yourself feel better, then this is not the right place or the right group to be hanging with. However, if this is who you have been, if you have found yourself unsettled, always on edge, agro, always picking a fight, known to be a bit of a biatch and know it all, struggling to maintain relationships but you no longer want to be that way or feel that way, then HONEY you need to come and hang out with us... oh and make sure you grab a vibrator on your way out! Where is it. We are in Perth. It will be held at a private residence in Menora (Mt Lawley), the address will be sent out to you with the confirmation email. Loads of parking in the park out the front. Can I bring a friend? YEs YEs YEs Can I bring a man? Not this time, sometimes they are open to everyone. So umm who are you exactly? Well I am someone who is passionate about many things especially our sexual health. I truely belive that happiness and wellbeing includes us being able to experince healthy pleasurable sex and sexual interactions. and having access to accurate and personalised information. Here's my condensed biol: I did a Psychology degree and I specialised by doing a Masters of Health Science (Sexual Health) and every year since then I have chosen to learn something new. So far I have emerssed myself in Life Coaching, Business Coaching, NLP, Time Line, Matrix, Hypnotherapy, quantum touch and my latest obsession is Ka Huna Massage. Yes I am Multi Passionate. I have run a counselling private practice for many years and presented countless workshops and presentations around Australia and for wonderful organisations and my latest brag - lecturing at Curtin Uni...so exciting. But seriously, over the years I have talked to thoughsands of people and I have seen patterns come up over and over again. I know that everyone is different but some of our stuff is the same, we just say it differently. I want people to know that people like me exist, that they don't have to struggle or suffer silently, alone. Google is not enough. We need to be able to talk about these things and to be supportive of others. You never know who you will be able to help as a consequence of sitting through this workshop. I have a group of friends that would loooove this presentation, is there anyway we can make that happen? There sure is, I have been running private workshops for years and I love them. Email me and we can chat fai@vmpevents.com.au |
